30 Lessons in 30 Years

This is probably more so a list of lessons from my twenties but 30 in 30 sounded catchy…

  1. Learn to call yourself out on your own BS

  2. Stop looking for external confirmation of what you want to create because what you will create doesn’t yet exist

  3. Build the wall brick by brick 

  4. If you don’t know where to go next, follow the path of curiosity

  5. Your intuition is never wrong

  6. No one has a copy of “how to be you”. You are the author and it is in progress.

  7. Don’t limit purpose to the confinement of a career. It’s more magnificent than a job description.

  8. Communication is the cure for most things

  9. Grief doesn’t care how long it’s been and that’s ok

  10. Be confident in what lights you up

  11. The first thing to do if you feel stuck is to climb the emotional ladder

  12. The days are long and the years are short but present moments can last a lifetime

  13. Stop apologizing

  14. The more you understand yourself, the more beautiful life becomes

  15. Comparison is a trap

  16. Sometimes God’s greatest gifts are right under your nose

  17. “And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.” - Marianne Williamson

  18. Other people’s opinions or judgments of you are none of your business 

  19. No one cares most about you than you

  20. There is always a lesson to be learned - in every situation. If you can’t find one, call me.

  21. Life is short. Life is long.

  22. Tell people you love them. Unconditional love isn’t just for doggos.

  23. Hard work isn’t the only way to achieve and get what you want

  24. God is always with you and for you. Period.

  25. Unlearned lessons will continue to appear until you’ve learned what you are supposed to learn

  26. Friends come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime

  27. ‘No’ is a complete sentence

  28. What you resist the most is probably what needs your attention the most

  29. Personal development investments always pay dividends

  30. Every decision presents you with an opportunity to travel down Head Street or Heart Street. Make it a goal to choose Heart Street more.